Jealousy

We all feel jealous at one point or another. We can be jealous of almost anything, be it a smooth life of somebody, colors chosen for whitewash.. good choice of meal.. boy friend, girl friend.. it can be almost anything. And above all guilt of being Jealous leads to another emotional problem- frustration and sometimes we feel so much angry because Jealousy gets to our head that in that moment of fury we are unstoppable. Though Jealous per se is not bad. It is a natural emotional problem and can be used in positive. However most of us simply struggle to convert this by definition negative emotion into positive energy. In fact most of us only categorize Jealousy as a extremely deadly emotion and needs to get away with it or simply shed it off. However the big question is .. is it really bad to Jealous.. cannot we stop comparing our self with others .. what we have is ours and what belong to others simply cannot be ours. Also don't fight too much of bad emotions as none of the emotion is bad or good.. First we have to accept us as imperfect, and mind you nobody in this world is perfect. Whosoever it is everybody gets Jealous like you and me, and it is not something we want to suppress and we want to kill our self. However the main part is how can we convert it into more positive energy. And the best part is there are almost 100 of books available in this world in all possible language which will tell how to get away with this pathetic emotion as it is the reason of so many bad happening in this world. But the best part is no matter what you will do .. in end you cannot stop yourself from being Jealous.. why because you are not perfect.. in case you stop being jealous you are attaining to perfectionism and perfection is far from being Human. So first stop assuming that jealousy is bad and secondly you can stop yourself from being jealous. It will not happen and should not happen.. so stop spending on books which claims to make you jealous free.. This feeling or emotion is shared by all... and no one can remain Jealous free.. we are born like that and we will remain like that.. Now how to become more acceptable to Jealous.. the only way is to accept jealousy to be our part.. just don't ignore this feeling.. it always remained and it will remain.. so whenever you are Jealous speak loud to yourself.. I am jealous and it is alright.. I am just another human being and you never know the another person might be jealous of you as well.. Once you taking cognizance of Jealousy formally .. you will see in your self a radical change..

Defeated

Its not easy to accept defeat.. in fact it is too embarrassing that many of us rather choose to take their life than to accept the fact that they are in fact defeated. In reality there is nothing like being embarrassing because their is no one in this universe who hasn't been defeated. Whosoever he/she feels like.. but the feeling or winning and failure is very relative. In a game for example when one team wins, the others are not actually being defeated or lost. In fact the team or player who has won.. doesn't retrospect that they are actually chosen to be won by some power. Hence other did mistakes and they didn't.. but it never meant that they are invincible.. anybody can win or lose.. winners are destined. This doesn't mean one only has to be destined.. it is little complex then this.. being Indian .. we believe in Karma theory and this is perfect in every sense.. as most of the complex questions can be answered so simply.
a) You have you past life karma
b) You have this birth karma
In fact nobody can be without Karma.. even God too cannot escape. However when karma will fructify and how... nobody can answer that. In practical world as well, that is the reason we have n numbers of Quality metrices, Quality management rules and organizations. And truth is despite being so many quality savvy nobody knows what can still go wrong. Hence forget if you are defeated.. nobody in this life is a winner.. just do your karma silently and keep smiling.. He knows well the truth behind

Darkness and Renunciation

It is all very dark.. feet's start to stumble... you never know what is underneath you.. it may wanna kill you.. it may wanna love you.. you never know.. what it gets unfolds into.. and this is true for life as well.. you don't know what to expect from it.. when it is happy.. it starts giving you unasked.. when it is furious it will take everything unasked.. it simply don't ask.
Whatever it do.. one thing is for sure.. there are pattern.. if you look closely.. you will observer.. nothing is simply random.. but there are rules.. one require somebody's help to understand them.. it may be anything.. even your inner speaking man.. or your friend.. in case you want nobody's help.. you have to keep yourself in the position of observant.. this is renunciation.. simply..

Negativity

Everyone has some amount of negative energy. Some has more, some has less. Some are just synonymus for negativites. They are full of so much negativites that they can burn whole world positivities. Nevermind everybody in this world had his/her bad time and on those few days life can make them so much negative that if they want they cannot turn to positive. Lets not discuss what these people have to do to become positive.
Lets just talk about why negativity exists at all. In fact one can ask what is positivity? Have you felt like after being too much negative, you starts feeling if you have reached bottom and you cannot be more negative. This feeling starts brining in positivity. In other words, feelings coexists. negative and positive feelings are always there. there is not a single person who does have only negative and only postive feeling. Without being positive, one cannot be negative and vice versa. Now what I am trying to prove here is, simple if something doesn't exists I cannot make one feel about that. Hence one when is posessed by negative feelings, is also somewhere postive too. It is just the matter of realizing and whenver somebody will give him the suggestion, negativity will starts fading. Though it is not that simple. in general being negative is the easiest thing to do. Everytime anyone can keep on suggesting that Sky will fall,, earth will come to end.. even if they are true.. he/she is just waiting for bad things to happen. being negative also gives one a chance to give away with the feeling of responsibility. For eaxmple, you can simply blame it on luck (I am denying any role of Luck or destiny) but luck doesn't telling you become weak. In case God is repeating bad things again and again don't you feel a pattern in that repeatition. DOn't you see if there is some part in you which needs to be matured.
In the end, I just want to say.. I too had my time of being negative and even today that feeling haunts me.. but I really enjoys more when I am more postive. And I don't hate myself for being negative.. its part and parcel of life, however what do you enjoy.. Villain beating hero or Hero beating Villain.

Anger Management

I am not sure all, but most of us want to be anger free. Anger is full of so much negative energy that it drains out almost all the positive energy for a while. Not only mental energy, it also makes you physically drained out for short moment. It can cause so many disease like hyperacidity, hypertension, high blood pressure, so many kind of heart disease. The bottom line is it is not good for health, self and society. Many a times in fits of anger on cause so much damages to one that they cannot be rolled back and causes so much of permanent damage.
Hence to control anger is worth a try. It is useful to the guy who is angry. Not only it is useful but a life saviour. It gives a new life to person, everytime a anger is controlled it boossts life multiple time, the major benefits

a) You don't make enemies
b) You will be noted by your friends
c) You will be appreciated by strangers
d) You will get popularity
e) You will be role model

What is Life?

Something full of disappointments and sudden volte faced events always leads to some or the other surprizes. I had mine and everybody has their surprizes. Neverever in life anybody goes through life full of success or disappointments. Life is always have sinusodal graphs. Full of ups and downs.. full of happiness and sadness. And whenever you assume that now I should take life taken for granted.. as sudden jolt can change everything and that too in blink of time.
You cannot see always smiling faces.. and who dares has to change the way the life has given to his or her. Events in life are so powerfull that they keep the potential to change the way a normal live goes.. it has the capability to change the complete depressed man so much hopeful and always hopefull man.. full of depression. In nutshell normal life is always driven by some unknown force.. and you can name it anything God, abnormal power, x-files .. whatever name you want to give.. it doesn't matter to the power behind.
Will continue...Take care and god Bless you all!