Saturday, August 28, 2010

Hate yourself for being so negative?

After going through very rough phase of life, when I started to doubt my abilities and willingness to improve the circumstances, I was literally started to cry. I started to doubt each and every event which is doing wrong- be it being angry at children or myself, be it spilling milk on the floor or Car getting old. I have already read The Secret, What the Bleep do we know, and many more. But still for some reason unless you actually go through examination, you don't know how effectively you have learnt the lesson.

The biggest deal was to remain positive despite things happening bad and you have to ask the Universe that things has to happen alright, Above all you have to start behaving that you almost have it or in other words you have to build your belief to such a extent that Universe eventually provide you with what you desire. And lastly you are going to achieve it.

Now when things are going easy, and you want to test the LOA , you are so much already filled with positivity that things start to fall in places and you may eventually get the desired object. However the challenge or the moment of truth comes when you are going through rough phase of life and you want things to not only get alright but help you to gain more things.

I have devised few steps on my own (or might be inspired from collection of readings and by experimenting on my own.

Hence in sequence that can be used (you can tweak some steps in between to suite your needs or based on your judgement though):

a) Don't accept the condition you are in, simply revolt.

b) Hate yourself to be so negative and whenever negative though come, do whatever but stay away from it. Doing anything means not to kill or abuse but writing it down about it on a piece of paper can be of help, or you can start praying, do EFT or whatever but don't do anything stupid.

c) Recall all the past events when despite of things going negative, they went excellent. This is something I have taken straight away from Norman Vincent, These recalls will help you gain belief and confidence in Universe because despite the mire you might be in and you don't see a way out, but Universe constantly trying to help you. Only challenge is you should have a doubtless belief and its not that you are just believing on groundless assumptions. You have your past as the perfect example. So recall and keep on believing it stronger. Do EFT to eradicate any doubt, you will feel the difference.

d) Start to live like a King whose orders are met as you are now in a sync with Universe. However keep these thoughts for the good things, as Universe really doesn't allow anything negative to get manifested. Don't harm and keep happy yourself and your surroundings as well. Why Surroundings- because more people get the positive vibe from you, more the power drift from universe towards you.

e) Enjoy your fulfilled desire. This is obviously the most important moment of your life.

Just before I conclude, I want to reiterate that never ever assume that there are coincidence in past when things happen for you. Rough phases in life are real examinations and more you flunk, more hard work you need to put in to get through. So just do few steps, say no to negative feeling, and see how Universe help you gaining whatever you have asked for.

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